About Bill White, MA I provide what I consider to be a very unique style of dating and love relationship coaching. The bulk of my approaches are based on what I have put into practice in my personal life. Many approaches I have developed myself. My relationship technology is alive and growing. I'm continually developing new or improved approaches. What my clients experienced a year ago has been significantly enhanced over that time period. I’m like many of you. I spent many miserable and clueless years trying to make sense of love relationships.

My life has been about finding my way out of the mess and discovering the secrets that bring happy, lasting love. I certainly don’t have all the answers, but my 25 years of work has given me some secrets that few have access to.

Not putting my parents in an unkind light, I did have a difficult time in childhood. The things I learned in childhood about self-love, loving others, healthy communication, and healthy relating were mostly inadequate.

I had a lot of unlearning to do. I realized in early adulthood that I would get nowhere in life if I didn’t address my defective childhood learning and pain. That unlearning and re-learning has been what my life has been about. As I’ve grown, healed, and learned, I’ve been in a position to pass along my wisdom to others.

Although I’m professionally trained, I became disenchanted with the mental health profession as early as undergraduate school in the late 70’s. As well-intentioned and capable as some in the profession are, I believe that overall the mental health profession is failing the general public. It can also be said that the general public is failing to adequately support the mental health system.

In 1982, I had a series of life-altering spiritual experiences that, among other things, inspired the development of my work. See Spirituality and Love Relationships.

Since my spiritual awakening, I have been coaching people in their family relationships and love relationships. I have also developed and led classes and workshops on the topics of: relationship strategies, healthy communication, emotional health, spirituality, and personal empowerment.

My Vision -- Healthy You, Healthy Couples, Healthy Children, Healthy World

There are four main passions in my life and in my work that draw me forward.

The first is a passion for people to find ways to connect with their spiritual self and to heal their psychic and emotional pain.

Second passion: I have chosen to specialize in work with couples because it serves both the individual and the couple. For individuals, I have discovered that the path of becoming a healthy couple generates personal healing. It also puts individuals in touch with their spirit selves. For the couple, the pain and confusion that is so common in relationships is replaced with a deep, lasting love and friendship.

The third passion is for children to be treated with kindness and respect. Like most of you, I know first hand the impact of parents who aren’t healthy enough to adequately care for their children. My vision is a world of truly conscious and healthy couples. Healthy couples will automatically take good care of their children.

Imagine the world we will have when all children are well taken care. Imagine the loving, joyful, empowered adults they will become. Imagine the good they will create in our world.

Fourth passion: By learning this new model for love relationships, you will be forerunners of a new world of healthy people in healthy relationships. A world that up until now has been unknown. A world where everyone is treated with love, respect, and kindness. A world that includes the end of war as a method for resolving conflict.

My Commitments To You:

• My intention and commitment to you is that you have a relationship that is not bogged down by unresolved conflict and emotional upsets, but that you have a partnership where you and your partner love being with one another, and your relationship inspires those you touch.

• And further, my intention and commitment is that you are confident that the love in your relationship will last.

 My Educational Background

• Bachelor's Degree in Psychology, Child Development, and Family Living from Western Kentucky University

• Master's Degree in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Phoenix

• Previously held title of National Board Certified Counselor

• Win-Win Practitioner (2-year program in Win-Win mediation and conflict resolution at the Win-Win Institute in Phoenix)

• Since 1980, I have been intensively participating in self-awareness and personal development courses, such as the Landmark Education courses, and most recently, The Hoffman Process and Chuluaqui Quodoushka Spiritual Sexuality Training.

NOTE: For those of you interested in seeing the entire list of my educational and growth experiences, request that document and I will e-mail it to you. Another document you may request is one that outlines my unique approaches in a little more detail, as well as listing many of the key people and experiences that have influenced my work.

Request a free consultation, or contact me if you have any questions for me about your situation or about my work. You can call me at 520-319-9132, or e-mail me at contact@thehealthycouple.com. Be assured that your e-mails (and all your interactions with me) are completely confidential.

I look forward to hearing from you!

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